Canon Henry Scott-Holland, 1847-1918,
Canon of St Paul's Cathedral
Death is nothing at all
I have only slipped away into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other
That we are still
Call me by my old familiar name
Speak to me in the easy way you always used
Put no difference into your tone
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed
At the little jokes we always enjoyed together
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was
Let it be spoken without effort
Without the ghost of a shadow in it
Life means all that it ever meant
It is the same as it ever was
There is absolute unbroken continuity
What is death but a negligible accident?
Why should I be out of mind
Because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you for an interval
Somewhere very near
Just around the corner
All is well.
Nothing is past; nothing is lost
One brief moment and all will be as it was before
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!
Poem read at the funeral service
9th March 2012
Remembering Beryl
Dear Beryl you’re gone, but not forgotten
With misty eyes we stand beholden
To the legacy you left, for the laughter you shared
And the people who smiled by you just being there
A garden of roses sway gently in the breeze
The purr of a cat, curled up of an eve
The words of a puzzle form patterns on the page
So happy you were with the wisdom of age
A love of animals, a song and a dance
Your sense of fun and taking pleasure in life
Always time for a chat and a smile, even in times of strife
The sands of time slip away endlessly
No more can we halt the tides of the sea
Your passing we know brings us pain so very real
The space you have left, no one else will ever fill
But in time our pain will ease and memories we will share
So many special moments with a woman so strong and so brave
A Mother, a Grandmother, a wife, a friend
A woman who was selfless, caring and giving to the end
As droplets of water form ripples on the lake
Your kindness and love spread joy in your wake
You were blessed with a gift that could make people smile
With just a cheeky look, or a bad joke, so let’s take a while
To remember our beloved Beryl – a true one of a kind
A Lady of courage - who leaves behind
A Son, a Daughter and two beautiful Grandchildren
Whose lives were enriched by your spirit and influence
You were the protector of family always wanting to please
Who sacrificed so much for those she held so dear
You cared for Ken so tenderly, raised two children and set them free
You battled so hard, privately; and shielded us from your pain, so we could not see
In truth, in the end, you could not live without Ken
And so he came calling, but we knew not when
Until you slipped away to join him hand in hand
Now you rest in peace – no more in pain – we understand
In us you live on and though tears we will shed
So privileged we are to have known someone so special
God bless you dear Beryl, we will love you forever
Poem written by Jon
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